"The place of women in Indian society ."
The image that is formed in our minds when we think about " women " . Gender equality means the treatment given to a man and a woman , being fair and equal . The simultaneous existance only proves that women are as equal and able as man . Those of us who deal with children know better . We know little girls love their dolls and boys just want to kick that ball . This doesn’t mean men can’t take care of babies or women can’t play sports . It just means each gender has its own energy that flows in a specific direction . For God’s sake, let it flow .
On a little lighter note ( which is truer then anything else ) let me tell you , " It Is So Not Easy Being A Women " points .
Being a women means facing those undress-you-eyes , gazing from top of your body to slim legs .
It is really difficult to put stockings on , to walk in high heels , to spend two hours in front of a mirror , to spend five hours on the phone .
Women are more sensitive then men . Crying over petty issues and then feeling better after relieving the stress , ain't as easy at it seems .
Women worry about the dark-circles , the shape of thier body , the hairstyle to suit them , the clothes that they wear and many such things . Yet what a boy sees in her , is her rear .
To bear the most intriguing pain every month and be in those Bad Mood or Mood swing time . The irritation , no guy can ever understand .
To carry a life in your stomach and deliver it after nine months . Vommits , breathlessness , nausea , women face it all just to see the Smiling face of her infant .
If a woman decides not to get married, then she can do whatever she wants , but the minute she says "I do" , she has to follow the Old Testaments .
The guys can go out for Nytouts and spend time Drinking with their friends and feel safe . But a women , she can't be Safe in day time and being all in her senses too .
She can't wear the comfortable clothing and can't move around as and when she wants without asking the permission of elders , unlike her Brothers and other Males at her place .
A man would need a virgin to marry , himself sleeping with every girl that comes along .
A girl can not go and watch the movie of her choice publically , if it has a bit adult content , just because her parents would be worried of , What if smone saw her ?
Before she crosses her tender childhood , she's made to adjust on little things just for the sake of peace after Marriage .
More then her education and her spirits in life , still the thing looked upon is the shape of her chapatis , by her to be in-laws for marriage .
If a women plans to study after marriage or achieve some high posts in the later life , there are chances that she will stay spinster all her life .
Women can manage both , home and her workplace , very efficiently . But only ! when she is allowed to do so .
~ A women bears this all , without a sign of disheartenment on her face . The soul reason being Gender Inequality . The mentality ' women being nowhere , but behind the men ' is the cause . A women is grown up , still , with the primary lesson to respect her man and not try to equalise him in any aspect .
A women is not born to be walked over or stepped on , by men . She's born to walk with him Shoulder-to-Shoulder . To every man that believes he doesn't need women , he is reminded " He's born out of A women , only " . Men can not be working without women . They can't even live in a clean house to have some space to sit , if there is no female to live with them . If a woman were to go up to a man in a bar and ask if he wants to sleep with him , I bet the man will instantly jump at that opportunity . Given that a man were to do the same thing to a woman he meets in a bar , he will likely to get slapped on his face and get thrown out of the bar . Women have pangs of conscience and do not go to a wrong path as compared to men . They also play many roles in her lifetime . A man should marry a woman , not because she is a looker or amazing in bed (she used to be both) , but because she will be willing to sacrifice her own advancement in life for him . It doesn't mean she has to be a housewife that stays home and gets fat while memorizing soap opera dialogue, it just means she is there strong as brick to support him . Women are their loved one's biggest fan , loudest cheerleader , and life’s leaning pole . Children grow up in the care of their mothers . His mother fondly feeds him with milk , pats him and cradles him . The baby in time , grows up into a Fine young man or women , who may even rule the world. It is to be remembered that the greatest conquerors of the world , had all been helpless babies once . Cherishing is a good thing , no one does it better than females .
Value a women , to be valuing yourself . Educate her so that , She can educate the youth . Love her , cuz she will love you back more then you could imagine . Respect her , cuz she brought into this world . Spend time with her , cuz you'll learn a lot about life . Give her equal importance , not becuz I am saying . Because , she's worth it
Mahi
#A Feminist
The sleepovers, the parties, the boys, the tears, the dances, the heartbreaks, the carpools, the shopping excursions, the drama ! I wouldn’t trade a minute of it for a million bucks .
The image that is formed in our minds when we think about " women " . Gender equality means the treatment given to a man and a woman , being fair and equal . The simultaneous existance only proves that women are as equal and able as man . Those of us who deal with children know better . We know little girls love their dolls and boys just want to kick that ball . This doesn’t mean men can’t take care of babies or women can’t play sports . It just means each gender has its own energy that flows in a specific direction . For God’s sake, let it flow .
On a little lighter note ( which is truer then anything else ) let me tell you , " It Is So Not Easy Being A Women " points .
Being a women means facing those undress-you-eyes , gazing from top of your body to slim legs .
It is really difficult to put stockings on , to walk in high heels , to spend two hours in front of a mirror , to spend five hours on the phone .
Women are more sensitive then men . Crying over petty issues and then feeling better after relieving the stress , ain't as easy at it seems .
Women worry about the dark-circles , the shape of thier body , the hairstyle to suit them , the clothes that they wear and many such things . Yet what a boy sees in her , is her rear .
To bear the most intriguing pain every month and be in those Bad Mood or Mood swing time . The irritation , no guy can ever understand .
To carry a life in your stomach and deliver it after nine months . Vommits , breathlessness , nausea , women face it all just to see the Smiling face of her infant .
If a woman decides not to get married, then she can do whatever she wants , but the minute she says "I do" , she has to follow the Old Testaments .
The guys can go out for Nytouts and spend time Drinking with their friends and feel safe . But a women , she can't be Safe in day time and being all in her senses too .
She can't wear the comfortable clothing and can't move around as and when she wants without asking the permission of elders , unlike her Brothers and other Males at her place .
A man would need a virgin to marry , himself sleeping with every girl that comes along .
A girl can not go and watch the movie of her choice publically , if it has a bit adult content , just because her parents would be worried of , What if smone saw her ?
Before she crosses her tender childhood , she's made to adjust on little things just for the sake of peace after Marriage .
More then her education and her spirits in life , still the thing looked upon is the shape of her chapatis , by her to be in-laws for marriage .
If a women plans to study after marriage or achieve some high posts in the later life , there are chances that she will stay spinster all her life .
Women can manage both , home and her workplace , very efficiently . But only ! when she is allowed to do so .
~ A women bears this all , without a sign of disheartenment on her face . The soul reason being Gender Inequality . The mentality ' women being nowhere , but behind the men ' is the cause . A women is grown up , still , with the primary lesson to respect her man and not try to equalise him in any aspect .
A women is not born to be walked over or stepped on , by men . She's born to walk with him Shoulder-to-Shoulder . To every man that believes he doesn't need women , he is reminded " He's born out of A women , only " . Men can not be working without women . They can't even live in a clean house to have some space to sit , if there is no female to live with them . If a woman were to go up to a man in a bar and ask if he wants to sleep with him , I bet the man will instantly jump at that opportunity . Given that a man were to do the same thing to a woman he meets in a bar , he will likely to get slapped on his face and get thrown out of the bar . Women have pangs of conscience and do not go to a wrong path as compared to men . They also play many roles in her lifetime . A man should marry a woman , not because she is a looker or amazing in bed (she used to be both) , but because she will be willing to sacrifice her own advancement in life for him . It doesn't mean she has to be a housewife that stays home and gets fat while memorizing soap opera dialogue, it just means she is there strong as brick to support him . Women are their loved one's biggest fan , loudest cheerleader , and life’s leaning pole . Children grow up in the care of their mothers . His mother fondly feeds him with milk , pats him and cradles him . The baby in time , grows up into a Fine young man or women , who may even rule the world. It is to be remembered that the greatest conquerors of the world , had all been helpless babies once . Cherishing is a good thing , no one does it better than females .
Value a women , to be valuing yourself . Educate her so that , She can educate the youth . Love her , cuz she will love you back more then you could imagine . Respect her , cuz she brought into this world . Spend time with her , cuz you'll learn a lot about life . Give her equal importance , not becuz I am saying . Because , she's worth it
Mahi
#A Feminist
The sleepovers, the parties, the boys, the tears, the dances, the heartbreaks, the carpools, the shopping excursions, the drama ! I wouldn’t trade a minute of it for a million bucks .
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